I realize the article was penned with a lighthearted attitude, but to belittle anyone in pursuit of the truth is hardly a journalistic achievement to be lauded.
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A Jim-Dan-dy mistake: I know you guys can't be perfect, but the award for Best Coach in your best-of issue [September 28] is incorrect. His name is not Jim Hughes, it's Dan Hughes.
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Editor's note: Our apologies to Dan Hughes, a fine coach who, in only one season, has influenced the Rockers in much the same way as the Cavaliers were aided by the able coaching of Lonny Wilkens and Mack Fratello.
In response to "Bouncing Back at Bouncers," in the September 21 Letters section: I totally agree with Sarah. It's bullshit that, when I go to a concert and get into the pit, I crowd-surf, and out of nowhere, I get pulled down forcefully and some asshole that works for the club throws me around. Because I paid 20 bucks to come there and listen to a band I like. I have had a lot of incidents like this at the Odeon and CSU. Probably the coolest place to see a band is the Euclid Tavern. Those guys are cool about everything, and they rarely have problems with the general public.
Be nice to bouncers: I understand that some people do not like bouncers/security. Why I do not know. But looking at it from my point of view, the security men are working for the people. They have to deal with some drunk and drugged-up kids. It gets really annoying when you ask someone to stop doing something, and they are unable to comprehend you and simply don't listen. I've worked many public events, and it is amazing that the vast majority of people are extremely rude, display no manners whatsoever, and always have something to complain about. I think people need to start appreciating others and showing a little bit more respect.
Spanking unruly children is not the answer: "One-Man Swat Team" [Putre, September 21] describes the child-rearing philosophy of Robert Surgenor. He advises parents that they can hit children with paddles as long as they don't put them in a sling, and that a slap on the face of a child works in a pinch. I find it amazing that The Plain Dealer [?! -- Ed.] would provide space to a man who publishes his own book on how and why to hit children, based on personal experience and selected readings of the Old Testament, and who pooh-poohs all scientific research about the harmfulness of hitting children. Did reporters actually read the book? The cover shows a policeman with a gun pointed at the back of a teen -- surely a clue as to the power issues the author has with youth.
Hitting misbehaving children is quick. It often ensures compliance (until the youth is big enough to hit back). It also teaches children that it is OK to hit others who are smaller and weaker. It is an at-risk behavior. Angry parents can easily step over the line to abuse children. Better alternatives exist. We need to spend time teaching our children appropriate behavior, providing limits that are appropriate for their ages, correcting them quickly and respectfully when they err, and praising their appropriate behavior. Hitting is not the answer to achieving good behavior in children.
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