10 Best Mature Dating Sites for Mature Singles Over 50

Many men (and women) wish to date mature women. Dating tends to get more fun when you’re older. The insecurities of adolescence are gone and people are more clear on what they’re looking for. In short, dating only gets better with age.

If you’re looking for mature dating sites, then we’ve compiled a list for you!

Senior Sizzle

Among the mature dating sites, Senior Sizzle is one of the few that has a more senior people to it. It was created and the difference being that Senior Sizzle targets people 40+ who are looking for soulmate—in whatever format.

While all sexual orientations are welcome, most people using Senior Sizzle are straight men and women. The site has many members, and as it’s a social networking site focused on mature dating for seniors, many members are pretty active. There are chat rooms, forums, live webcams, etc. You can also chat privately with members trough messaging and video calls. You can even interact through the site using various features. In short, it’s just targets a specific demographic.

If you’re looking for adult mature dating, then Senior Sizzle is a good option. Particularly if you’re looking for online flings.

It’s Just Lunch

If you’re looking for mature dating with a twist, It’s Just Lunch might be just what you’re looking for! Here professional matchmakers will set you up for a date with an available singleton in your area. You don’t have to browse profiles, or do online chatting—all you have to do is provide enough information for the matchmakers to find you the perfect date. They will even suggest where the lunch date should take place.

There are a lot of members 40+ and 50+ using the site. Most of those members are looking for serious relationships and value the fact that a professional matchmaker will help them find the perfect date.

When registering on It’s Just Lunch, you fill in a basic registration form. After that, a consultant will call you and discuss if a membership is for you. The initial call will last for about 30 minutes. If you decide to go ahead with a membership after that, they will schedule an online video call with you for a proper interview. During that interview they will ask you questions to get to now you better, as well as to find out your preferences when dating. If they believe they have members you can be a fit for, you’re welcome to join the site.

A membership on It’s Just Lunch ranges from $2,000-$4,000 depending on your location and things such as how many guaranteed dates they will provide you with.

If you don’t want to spend hours browsing profiles and chatting with strangers to find out who might be a match for you, It’s Just Lunch is a brilliant, if pricey, alternative.

Senior Match

Senior Match is a one of free over 50 dating sites for mature people. It has all the basic functions of a dating site—you can upload a profile and search for members based on very basic search criteria, such as country, age, and gender. When signing up, you have to give an email address, but you can use the site without verifying your email address. This means anyone can create a profile and there may be some fake profiles on the site.

There are no details about who owns the site, but it does offer customer support.

In short, you can have a look around Senior Match as it’s a free site, but if you’re looking for a bigger site with more members and security options, then you’re better off with something like Senior Sizzle.


As one of the world’s largest dating sites, Match has members of all ages. You can easily find mature members by specifying which age group you’re looking to date.

Having been around for over 20 years and having over 20M members, Match has a solid reputation. And, if you sign up for a 6-month membership and don’t find a serious match during those months, they give you another six months for free. All sexual orientations are welcome.

Match profiles are fairly basic, but they still give you the option to answer a plethora of question related to interests and lifestyle. This can then be used in the search filters when looking for matches.

You can message and chat with other members on Match. In addition to that, there’s an in-app feature that lets you call other members without revealing your phone number.

If you’re looking to date older women, dating sites like Match work well as they have a lot of members and you can set your search preferences to whatever age group you’re looking to date.

Our Time

Looking to date mature women? Dating site Our Time is for mature men and women, usually over 50, looking to find love.

Our Time is a popular mature women dating site with millions of members worldwide. As it specifically focuses on mature dating, members are usually looking for serious dating, as opposed to hoops. Profiles have the option to become fairly detailed, if you fill in all the different sections.

In addition to being able to message other members, you can also video chat with them. This makes virtual first dates a lot easier, as you don’t have to hand out any personal information.

If you’re looking for a no-nonsense dating site catering to those over 50, Our Time is a good option.

Note that there are different versions of the Our Time website, because the US version is owned by People Media and the UK and European versions by Match/Meetic.

Cougar Life

Still young, but looking to date mature women? Dating sites that cater to this are either regular dating sites, like Tinder and Match where you set your age preferences, or sites that focuses on cougars. Cougar Life is a dating site that focuses on cougars and their cubs. In other words, it’s an older women dating site for older women looking for younger men.

As only about 30% of Cougar Life’s members are female, it’s clear that the male population enjoys older women.

Launched back in 2006, Cougar Life has been around for a while and sports around 7M members worldwide. It’s a very well-designed site that looks incredible! And fun! However, the profiles are a bit lacking in information, and there are no exciting features, or match algorithms.

If you’re looking for an older woman, or a younger man, Cougar Life is definitively a site well-worth checking out.


If you are a younger man looking to date mature women, dating site Cougared might be for you. Then again, it might not. Because it’s far from the best cougar dating site out there. At least where design is concerned—it looks like something straight out of the nineties.

What’s more, it looks like Cougared isn’t a very active dating site—as soon as you sign up, they try to interest you in other, paid, dating sites. In short, it looks like Cougared is a front for marketing other sites. Likely they get a cut if they send traffic to the other sites and that traffic signs up for memberships.

If you are looking for a cougar dating site where you can find real-life mature women, rather check out Cougar Life.


If you want to date mature women, dating site POF (formerly Plenty of Fish), may be able to help. Likewise, if you want to date mature men, this is a good site due to its size.

Like many other dating sites for older people on this list, POF is not a site dedicated to mature dating, but rather a site where you find members of all ages. And granted POF has over 90M members worldwide, there's no shortage of members. As they’d say—there’s plenty of fish!

Due to the test you take and other information you need to fill out, profiles on POF are very detailed. As with any other dating site, you also upload photos. Face filters on photos are banned, so if you’re looking for a site where the photos are real, this is it.

There’s the possibility of sending voice notes to your matches, which is a pretty nifty feature! Of course, you can also send regular messages. If POF detects any spam, illicit content, etc. they will block you. You can’t even copy and paste the same message and send it to many different members. This is so as to prevent spam.

Overall, POF is a pretty cool dating site and app, perfect for mature dating so long as you set your age preferences!


Mature women dating older men…or rather: mature men looking for younger women. That's what’s Singles 50 is all about, the stress-free way to find the right partner.

As such, this is a site for mature dating over 50. If you’re looking for serious dating, that is all the site for you. Singles 50 comes with some funky features. For one there are forums in which you can interact with other members. There is also the Singles 50 Chemistry Predictor which predicts how well you will match with someone based on a test you do.

Singles 50 is one of small dating sites for older people, so if you need a large reputation, Senior sizzle will be good for you.

Coffee Meets Bagel

Dating site Coffee Meets Bagel has a somewhat unusual approach to online dating. Here, you need to sign up with your Facebook account. The dating app will then introduce you to friends of friends who are also Coffee Meets Bagel users. As such, this app is best in big cities as you need to be able to find friends of friends who are using it. It’s particularly popular in Hong Kong and New York. That said, the algorithm may change slightly if you're in an area where none of your friends of friends are using the app—chances are they’ll introduce you to other members. It has over 10M users, so it’s certainly popular!

What’s interesting with Coffee Meets Bagel is that you do not do any searching. A man is presented with 21 women per day (granted there are that many users in his area). If he likes one of these women (and only then) is she presented with his profile. A woman is only presented with up to 8 potential matches per day, but she will know that those matches already liked her. You only have 24 hours to approve a match, or it disappears. This forces users to truly engage with the app and respond to notifications. Once it’s a mutual match, you can message one another.

During the COVID pandemic, Coffee Meets Bagel has arranged some online speed dating type events for their users.
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