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Savage Love: A Gay Friend Has Been Giving Me Occasional Blowjobs. Am I Using Him?

Dan checks in with the source

by Dan Savage November 11, 2022July 28, 2025

Savage Love: My Husband Secretly Got Vaccinated for Monkeypox. Is He Cheating On Me?

Plus an announcement on where to find Savage Love online soon

by Dan Savage November 2, 2022June 30, 2025

Savage Love: Can Someone Be Homosexual and Asexual?

Quick questions and answers

by Dan Savage October 26, 2022June 19, 2025

Savage Love: Help! My Orgasms Are Physically Debilitating

They last 30 seconds and leave me unable to function afterward

by Dan Savage October 19, 2022July 7, 2025

Savage Love: My Wife Was Sexually Assaulted in Her Past. How Can I Safely Introduce BDSM Into Our Sex Life?

Baby steps are key

by Dan Savage October 12, 2022July 3, 2025

Savage Love: I’m Tired of Being Treated Like a Gay Black Fantasy Come to Life

Done Wrong

by Dan Savage October 5, 2022July 5, 2025

Savage Love: Kids Watching Porn, Naked Husbands, and NPR During Sex?

Plus, what’s an Ass Ceiling?

by Dan Savage September 21, 2022June 29, 2025

Savage Love: My Straight Boyfriend Sent His Male Friend Nudes and Says This Is Just Something Dudes Do?

Am I crazy or is this guy something more than a friend?

by Dan Savage September 14, 2022July 4, 2025

Savage Love: I’m a Small Town Public School Teacher. How Do I Find Casual Hookups Without Everyone Finding Out?

by Dan Savage September 7, 2022June 3, 2025

Savage Love: If He Acts Like a Boyfriend, Why Does He Say He Doesn’t Want to Be My Boyfriend?

Should I adjust my romantic expectations downward?

by Dan Savage August 31, 2022July 2, 2025

Savage Love: My Wife Says I Can’t Watch Porn, At All

Jerked around

by Dan Savage August 24, 2022July 7, 2025

Savage Love: Why Do I Always End Up Alone?

And other quickies

by Dan Savage August 17, 2022May 20, 2025