Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST

Tips on a couple of go-to positions and a reminder that not all “sex” is penetrative

You’re allowed to want more with someone. You’re also allowed to enjoy amazing sex. Just don’t confuse the spark with something sustainable that can lead to long-term success

Kink doesn’t need to be all or nothing, so start the conversation and take the risk

It may be “just sex” to him. But for you, it’s clearly becoming more than that. It’s time to prioritize your needs and do a cost/benefit analysis of the situation

The three golden rules for anal sex? Cleanliness, relaxation, and lubrication.

Asexuality isn’t the same as sexual aversion, and that’s a topic worth exploring, as well as acceptance for how you feel