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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Pre-Sex Anxiety is Ruining Sex for Me!
The pressure of “being a good lover” and “giving your partner an orgasm” can feel universal and create loads of stress
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Have Never Had Sex, Help!
Even if waiting this long to engage in intimacy wasn’t on your vision board for life, you can begin shaping a more positive narrative around it and not worrying about being “good” or “bad”
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: How Can I Ask for a Threesome?
It’s a nuanced conversation and you want to be clear on your reasoning behind wanting to explore group sex with him
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: My Partner Told Me He Wants Me to Pee On Him, and It’s Freaked Me Out
Whether or not you choose to dive into water sports, understanding different desires can strengthen your ability to approach sexuality with compassion and acceptance
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: How Can I Stop Letting Sex Take Over My Relationships?
The answer might be found in communication and refocusing on quality over quantity
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Need Help Talking to My Partner About Sex
The key to talking about desires, boundaries and concerns is approaching the conversation with curiosity, not criticism
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: My Anxious Attachment Style is Keeping Me From Moving Forward From My Ex
People tend to forget that you are more than just your attachment style
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: How Long Does It Take to Get Over a Breakup, Because I Feel Awful
There are several reasons why breakups are hard (fear of being single, scarcity mentality, sunk-cost fallacy), but one particularly intriguing reason is that people often feel unequipped with the skills to navigate a breakup successfully
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I’m Curious About Opening Up My Relationship But Worry What My Partner Will Think
It begins with trust in your partner and honest conversations
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I’m 34 and Dealing With Erectile Issues
It’s happening both when I feel stressed and relaxed, and it’s causing issues in my relationship
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Am Obsessed With Sex and It’s Impacting My Relationship
How do I make my partner not feel used and instead feel like it’s a shared experience?
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Is the “Seven Year Itch” Real?
Passion is destined to fade in relationships at some point. Instead of wondering when it will happen, we should focus on being prepared for what to do when it does