Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST, Author at Cleveland Scene

Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Sexological Bodywork Outside of the Office

Sexological bodyworkers practice from a framework of unilateral touch. Through guided practices, consent-based touch, and somatic exercises, bodyworkers help clients explore their sensations.

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST September 22, 2025September 22, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Why Can’t My Boyfriend and Sex Toy Just Get Along?

I don’t need to tell you this, but your pleasure matters just as much as his. If he bristles at the idea of toys today, that doesn’t mean he always will.

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST September 15, 2025September 15, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: My Partner and I Enjoy Public Sex, But He Wants to Get Riskier

Public play is not necessarily about wanting an audience but the thrill. But when it veers into exhibitionism or riskier situations, it involves not only your consent but others’

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST September 8, 2025September 8, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: My Partner and I Enjoy Public Sex, But He Wants to Get Riskier

Public play is not necessarily about wanting an audience but the thrill. But when it veers into exhibitionism or riskier situations, it involves not only your consent but others’

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST September 8, 2025September 9, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: How Do I Avoid Practicing Toxic Monogamy?

You can start by asking whether monogamy is right for you, or simply the only option you think you’re allowed.

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST September 2, 2025September 9, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Fantasize About My Neighbor and I Think He Knows

Desire isn’t bad and fantasy shows that your erotic mind is still playful and curious. Let that be fuel for your private life and marriage

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST August 25, 2025September 9, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Why Does Vacation Sex Always Feel Better Than Sex at Home?

Novelty, a lack of stress, and permission to slip out of regular roles all help. There are also ways to recreate the experience at home

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST August 19, 2025September 8, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Does a Mono/Poly Relationship Actually Work?

Mono/poly might not be traditional, but for some folks, it’s where freedom and intimacy meet in the best possible way. But it has to be for the right reasons, and with clear communication

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST August 12, 2025September 4, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Why Does My Partner Masturbate? Am I Not Enough?

Not only is self love healthy and positive, you are not in competition with it

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST August 4, 2025September 6, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Is Polyamory Right for You?

Monogamy isn’t the only way, but before jumping in, you need to ask yourself why you’re interested, what your plan is, and what your relationship with jealousy is

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST July 28, 2025September 5, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Healing Shame Through Sex-Positive Living

Four steps can help reshape your relationship with sexuality. And it’s not a sprint, but a marathon that will take dedication to relearn the beauty of your sexual self

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST July 21, 2025September 2, 2025

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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: How Can I Rebuild Desire and Emotional Safety After a Pregnancy Loss?

Trying non-demand touch activities, recognizing that you have permission to move at your own pace, and realizing sex can become a healing space are all part of the journey

by Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST July 14, 2025July 25, 2025