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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Why Am I Like This? Planting the Seeds of Sexuality
Explaining the “Garden Metaphor,” one of the best ways to talk about how sexuality changes over time
Matt Lachman LPCC-S, CST
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: True Cuckolding vs. Sexual Coercion
This whole thing only works if both of you feel seen and communicate. Don’t skip the conversation part, even if it might be uncomfortable.
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Am in My 70s and Never Had An Orgasm
Let’s talk about the “orgasm gap,” prioritizing your body, and remembering that an orgasm is only 5% of a sexual experience.
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Finding the Right Positions as We Age
Tips on a couple of go-to positions and a reminder that not all “sex” is penetrative
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: My Friend’s Obsessive Thoughts Over My Past MMF Threesome
It’s time to talk about jealousy and shaming
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Sexual vs Romantic Compatibility: Which One is More Important?
You’re allowed to want more with someone. You’re also allowed to enjoy amazing sex. Just don’t confuse the spark with something sustainable that can lead to long-term success
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Our Son Caught Us Having Sex
Kids are exposed to sex in subtle and not-so-subtle ways all the time. What makes the difference is whether they feel safe, supported, and informed at home.
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I’m 47 and In a Two-Year Relationship. Is It Too Late to Explore Kink?
Kink doesn’t need to be all or nothing, so start the conversation and take the risk
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I Am Gay and Hooking Up With My Straight Friend.
It may be “just sex” to him. But for you, it’s clearly becoming more than that. It’s time to prioritize your needs and do a cost/benefit analysis of the situation
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: I’m a Straight Guy and Want to Try Anal. Help!
The three golden rules for anal sex? Cleanliness, relaxation, and lubrication.
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: The Complicated Feelings of Being Asexual
Asexuality isn’t the same as sexual aversion, and that’s a topic worth exploring, as well as acceptance for how you feel
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: Cuckolding Seems Wild. Can You Explain Why People Like It?
Humiliation in daily life? Not fun. But in a controlled, consensual setting? It can be intensely arousing.