Love Advice

Public play is not necessarily about wanting an audience but the thrill. But when it veers into exhibitionism or riskier situations, it involves not only your consent but others’

You can start by asking whether monogamy is right for you, or simply the only option you think you’re allowed.

Desire isn’t bad and fantasy shows that your erotic mind is still playful and curious. Let that be fuel for your private life and marriage

Novelty, a lack of stress, and permission to slip out of regular roles all help. There are also ways to recreate the experience at home

Mono/poly might not be traditional, but for some folks, it’s where freedom and intimacy meet in the best possible way. But it has to be for the right reasons, and with clear communication

Not only is self love healthy and positive, you are not in competition with it

Monogamy isn’t the only way, but before jumping in, you need to ask yourself why you’re interested, what your plan is, and what your relationship with jealousy is

Four steps can help reshape your relationship with sexuality. And it’s not a sprint, but a marathon that will take dedication to relearn the beauty of your sexual self

Trying non-demand touch activities, recognizing that you have permission to move at your own pace, and realizing sex can become a healing space are all part of the journey

Explaining the “Garden Metaphor,” one of the best ways to talk about how sexuality changes over time