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Savage Love: A Gay Friend Has Been Giving Me Occasional Blowjobs. Am I Using Him?

Dan checks in with the source

By Dan Savage

Nov 11, 2022

Dear Readers: I’m away this week, so we’re re-running a popular Q&A from a few years back. This column originally appeared in late June of 2018...

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