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Savage Love: A Gay Friend Has Been Giving Me Occasional Blowjobs. Am I Using Him?

Dan checks in with the source

By Dan Savage

Nov 11, 2022

Dear Readers: I’m away this week, so we’re re-running a popular Q&A from a few years back. This column originally appeared in late June of 2018...

Savage Love: A Gay Friend Has Been Giving Me Occasional Blowjobs. Am I Using Him?

Savage Love: My Husband Secretly Got Vaccinated for Monkeypox. Is He Cheating On Me?

Plus an announcement on where to find Savage Love online soon

By Dan Savage
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Savage Love: Can Someone Be Homosexual and Asexual?

Quick questions and answers

By Dan Savage
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Savage Love: Help! My Orgasms Are Physically Debilitating

They last 30 seconds and leave me unable to function afterward

By Dan Savage
Oct 19, 2022
Savage Love: My Wife Was Sexually Assaulted in Her Past. How Can I Safely Introduce BDSM Into Our Sex Life?

Baby steps are key

By Dan Savage
Oct 12, 2022
Savage Love: I'm Tired of Being Treated Like a Gay Black Fantasy Come to Life

Done Wrong

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Oct 5, 2022
Savage Love: Kids Watching Porn, Naked Husbands, and NPR During Sex?

Plus, what's an Ass Ceiling?

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Savage Love: My Straight Boyfriend Sent His Male Friend Nudes and Says This Is Just Something Dudes Do?

Am I crazy or is this guy something more than a friend?

By Dan Savage
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Savage Love: I'm a Small Town Public School Teacher. How Do I Find Casual Hookups Without Everyone Finding Out?

By Dan Savage
Sep 7, 2022
Savage Love: If He Acts Like a Boyfriend, Why Does He Say He Doesn't Want to Be My Boyfriend?

Should I adjust my romantic expectations downward?

By Dan Savage
Aug 31, 2022
Savage Love: My Wife Says I Can't Watch Porn, At All

Jerked around

By Dan Savage
Aug 24, 2022
Savage Love: Why Do I Always End Up Alone?

And other quickies

By Dan Savage
Aug 17, 2022
Savage Love: I Like Being Choked During Sex. Is That Dangerous?

It's got a hold on me

By Dan Savage
Aug 10, 2022
Savage Love: I Fantasize About My Husband Being With Other Women. What Do You Call Me?

What the cuck am I?

By Dan Savage
Aug 3, 2022
Savage Love: How Do I Tell a Guy the Sex Was Too Rough?

Pound for pound

By Dan Savage
Jul 28, 2022
Savage Love: Can I Introduce My Lover to My Spouse?

I think they would enjoy each other’s sense of humor and personality

By Dan Savage
Jul 20, 2022
Savage Love: Is It Transphobic to Have a Preference For or Against Dicks?

Penis or bust, or the opposite

By Dan Savage
Jul 13, 2022
Savage Love: I'm Gay. Should I Be Worried About Monkeypox?

There are more than 5,000 cases all over the world, and almost all of them are among gay and bi men

By Dan Savage
Jul 6, 2022
Savage Love: Oxytocin, Bonding, and Casual Sex

Does the “bonding hormone” only release when you’re seeking an emotional attachment to a sex partner?

By Dan Savage
Jun 29, 2022
Savage Love: Is It Sexual Preference or Just Racism?

By Dan Savage
Jun 22, 2022
Savage Love: A Dom Didn't Respect My Limits During a BDSM Session. Should I Confront Him?

By Dan Savage
Jun 15, 2022

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