Maybe she would have felt better if this was one of the wedding pictures.

  • Maybe she would have felt better if this was one of the wedding pictures.

Finding out that your significant other is cheating on you is hard.

Finding out that your significant other has a second spouse is even harder.

Finding out that your significant other has a second spouse when you see their wedding photos on Facebook? That’s a whole ‘nother level of hard.

WKYC has the story of a woman who they call “Megan” who went through just such an ordeal.

The Cleveland woman’s husband was a businessman who traveled often, so at first she didn’t think much of his frequent absences. She became suspicious eventually, especially after her family pointed her towards the Facebook page of a woman who seemed to be spending plenty of personal time with her man. Of course, what happened in Vegas or China or wherever the hell he was flying to didn’t stay there, not when his mistress was posting pictures and updates of her time with him.

The real kicker for the Cleveland woman was when she logged on recently and saw photos from her husband’s wedding with his second wife. Here’s what “Megan” had to say:

“It’s rubbing that salt into the wound of already finding out that my husband’s having an affair,” Megan said. “The pictures are out there for the world to see. It’s not just that I have the knowledge, but I see the proof and everyone I know sees the proof and people I don’t know see the proof.”

“If they’re going to have the affair, they’re going to have the affair,” she said. “But it’s extra. It adds impact to the hurt, when they’re posting the things they post about the affair. Pictures of the vacations they’re taking with the other, the lover, the extra person. (Facebook posts) just cause a whole new hurt.”

See, guys. If you’re going to have an affair, you’re going to have an affair. Just don’t post the pictures of your second wife on Facebook. That’s when the first wife tends to get upset.

This article appears in Jul 28 – Aug 3, 2010.

Vince Grzegorek has been with Scene since 2007 and editor-in-chief since 2012. He previously worked at Discount Drug Mart and Texas Roadhouse.

17 replies on “Woman Discovers Husband’s Second Wife When She Sees Their Wedding Photos on Facebook”

  1. I don’t think she was meaning that its okay to have an affair, I think she meant that an affair is already bad but to publicly humiliate her is another. From that wedding photo it lookslike he pubicly humiliated her too!!!

  2. so who is the couple in the picture and why the hell would anyone let their baby be a part of all that??

  5. I wonder if the “shock” has worn off yet for the 1st wife? I hope she is going to get rid of the husband!!

  6. I wonder if the shock has worn off yet for this poor woman? Hopefully, soon she will be single?

  7. I feel for you. I too was involved in the same situation, but thank goodness I was not married. My boyfriend of 5 years was living a double life for 2 years with another women. And I also seen photos of their time together on facebook. I know how hard it is to try and take everything in. It makes you wonder how someone could say they love you and do this to you. If you ever need to talk email me. renee20002001@yahoo.com.

  8. omg shut up renee. no one wants to talk to you. it’s doubtful you are a professional therapist, and i really doubt that the victim is reading this article looking for stranger on the internet they can share feelings with. what a moronic bottom feeder you are.

  9. wow skip dikhead, tell us how you really feel? not Renee’s fault you hate yourself and your whole world around you. She was only trying to help. what a douche

  10. “The pictures are out there for the world to see. ” and doing a news interview about the humiliating ordeal is keeping it private? She saounds like a big old hipicrite to me..

  12. “Bartlett pear” hysterical! A couple things here…1.) WTF is with that pic? Is that really the dude’s wedding pic? Is that the first or second wife? 2.) I think I would be more humiliated by the fact that I married the thing in that pic more than by the fact he was cheating! Ppl cheat all the time, you don’t see shit like that every day! Although the idea that you weren’t enough to satisfy some old, out of shape creaper would in fact be unbearably humiliating!

  14. You all need to read the caption under the picture. It’s obvious that the creepy old dude wearing the marble bag is not the man that was involved in the affair. It’s just a very odd pic. of a very old, creepy geezer wearing panties and looking disgusting. He has nothing to do with the story about the affair..

  17. Facebook is an instrument of the Devil. It should be called anti-social media.

    Chuckles the Clown

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